It is POssible!

This one is going to be really short, so you can read all of it in 60 seconds.

I have delayed writing anything about this election until now, not like I had a plan, but somehow I just haven’t brought myself to do it, even though I have really wanted to say something so badly! Maybe because I was struggling with the dilemma of whether or not to be partisan. But hey, I am a Nigerian too, and I want to see a ‘New Nigeria’ that works!

Here is something one of my senior colleagues had to say about the election, particularly the Presidential election; “Talking about the possibility of creating a Malaysia out of Nigeria,  objectively,  there is no other candidate as Mr Peter Obi, but then, Nigeria presents a complexity that goes beyond meet the eye…”. 

The politics of Nigeria is scary and goes way beyond logic, but frankly all we have to do is keep trying, and here is one of the best opportunities we ever had to TRY something a lot different. I have always had the believe that our ‘messiah’ in Nigeria cannot come from among them, yet there is one from among them this time that appears like a ‘messiah’.

PO will not give us all the answers, but he would give us something to look forward to which will be different, largely, from what we have known in the last 24 years. Let’s take the chance guys, there is so much at stake! 

Having the PVCs is not enough guys! We need to go out there this time and use them! All the elections are important, but we have our eyes on Saturday, February 25th. 

I BELIEVE THAT A NEW NIGERIA IS POssible! If you do too, just say ‘POSSIBLE’ in the comment section! 🥂

February 25: The New Valentine’s Day in Nigeria!

Ladies and Gentlemen! Let’s reserve the ‘Happy New Month’ for February and the ‘Happy Valentine’s Day’ till the end of the month abeg, because we’ll only know if the month was happy after the 25th. We are literally 25 days away from a very defining moment in our lives and future as Nigerians! A lot has been, and is still being said about the elections and the need to be strategic and very intentional about this one. Not only would the February 25th Presidential elections determine the next four or most likely eight years for Nigeria and Nigerians, it would determine many many more years after that, truth be told!

Am sure you have made up your mind already on who to vote and collected your PVC (or going to get yours today or tomorrow), and decided how involved you want to get in this civic responsibility we have as Nigerians, and rare privilege we have as individuals to determine our own future. I would not bore you with candidate credentials and track record , there is a lot of information out there, in case you need to know a little more (I would wonder what you have been doing since not to have as much information as you need by now though).

I just thought to send you a quick reminder of how very very crucial this month is for us as eligible voting Nigerians. Allow me to use bullet points for better articulation (no pun intended abeg). 

1. Of all the 18 parties fielding candidates for the office of the President, at least we have tasted two of them, and I am not sure how they taste in your mouth (because sweetness is in the mouth of the taster … As e dey pain us, e fit dey sweet you 🤷🏽‍♂️). We have had doses of APC and PDP, and it is definitely time to taste something else, or so I think.
2. Unlike past elections, there is a new kid on the block - Labour Party - thanks to Mr. Peter Obi and the massive support he has received in the last few months. Apparently, we are no longer thorn between two evils, there is a third ‘evil’ at least, which we have not tried. And at this point, I don’t think the devil we know is better than the angel we do not know, let’s get to meet the angel first then we can decide, or what do you think? 
3. Unlike previous elections, where ‘the two elephants’ have refused to show up for debate and have gone about abusing one another (as they are still doing in this one) we have one candidate who goes on talking to everyone who cares to listen (on radio, TV interviews, session with youth and students, leaders of businesses and industry, online audience on any platform that makes itself available, and so on) about his plans for Nigerians and Nigeria, dedication and commitment to office, and upholding values we can hold him accountable for - commitment, character and competence. These are leadership ethics that would drive us many miles forward as a nation, or what do you think?
4. Unlike previous elections, where votes have been sold by hungry Nigerians to bidder who sort these votes by hook or crook (and are still seeking them sort by all means even now), we have a candidate who has openly told supporters (the same hungry Nigerians) that he would not buy their votes, but rather would do all he can to stop them from going hungry if they trust him with their votes. I just hope hunger and greed would not cloud our minds from choosing wisely this time around.

The list goes on, but abeg am tired (Do you want to add to my list in the comment section, please?)? Thinking about the justifications and shameful defense people have sometimes for publicly justifying their choice of ‘old wine’ makes me sick beyond my stomach. Like how nau!? Anyways, some would literally walk into the fire with their eyes wide open, what do you do?

My dear country people, we have NEVER had it this good in the political history of Nigeria in terms of political options and very vivid prospects for political change. Just what if these options and political realities are unfolding before us for such a time as this? The future (not eight years) is a really long time for us to make any irrational, non-strategic, selfish decisions about. 90+ million registered voters, 60+ million registered voters within ages 49 and below. What better way than through the ballot? What better day than February 25 2023, to really decide the future we want? 

The die would be cast any moment soon! What’s it going to be? Use your head and heart guys! 

Feel free to share your thoughts too 🙏🏽

Divorce Culture: My 2Cent!

Divorce is becoming a way of life in Nigeria, and if you think this is only common among celebrities, then think again, because if you look around you, you may well have that one relative or close friend or acquaintance who is either separated or who is currently undergoing a divorce. 

Ireti Doyle was the most recent shocker. I literally screamed in the kitchen when I read this yesterday morning, my wife thought I had chopped off my finger with the kitchen knife. In the last one year alone I have lost count. The social media has not made it any easier as people’s life’s and relationships have been brought before the ‘judgement seat’ of social media. I am literally waiting to hear Basket Mouth share a joke about his divorce the same way he had several jokes about his wife. 🙈

Jokes apart though, to be fair, relationships, let alone marriage, is one of the most difficult jobs on earth, no capping! I listened to one preacher say, if your marriage is like being a frying pan, then get fried 😊 I’ll let you make whatever you can out of this unconventional statement. But here is my 2 cent sha… 

1. There is no such thing as ‘the right person’ in marriage. Don’t be deceived by all the many relationship bloggers on IG, marriage is hard work guys, doesn’t matter if your spouse is an angel, the mere fact that you are human means that your selfishness will manifest sometimes and that ‘angel’ will piss you off badly and maybe regularly. I don’t know how else to say it sha, but there is so much more to it than the ass grabs, the stolen kisses, the public paparazzi, the awwwn-ish skits (whatever that means), the sex and fill in the blanks. If you are not ready for the job, stay clear! 🙏🏽
2. The boobs, nice ass, 6 packs, and figure 8 are all beautiful stuff, but when the chips are down, you will be willing to walk away from all of them. Pay attention to the things that matter the most; faith, and values.
3. Love is so much more than just a feeling. Beyond all the butterflies in the belly and incredible emotions, love is a very strong commitment.
4. Forgiveness is key! Always be ready to give your partner a million chances over. You don’t have to put or keep yourself in harms way, but don’t ever shut the door to forgiveness. 
5. Social media is a trap, don’t get carried away guys. Keep private business private, because at the end of the day, nobody send you for ‘these streets’ 🤷🏽‍♂️

Imagine that, with all the blunders you have made so far in your short life, you wake up one morning and God says He can’t put up with you anymore, and He is leaving. Unthinkable right? That’s how marriage ought to be; “as Christ loves the church” (Eph. 5:25). Forgive me, but talking about marriage without the Bible is like trying to fix a product without the manufacturer’s manual. 

Am not saying you should stay in a toxic environment/relationship, but be careful  not to get into one in the first place, and even if you did, quitting may not be an option. But I mean, what do I know? 

Did a post about finding the right person to marry a while back though, you can read it here

Please what’s your 2 cents on this matter abeg? Feel free to disagree with me in the comments section! 👍 

#myrandomweeklythoughts

HELP! I THINK I AM SICK! 😞

First things first! Happy new year to y’all reading this piece. I hope you are on the bright (or at least fair side of life). I really don’t know how happy the year would be (in fact I’m sure there is nothing happy about the new year) for the many people who have lost properties and loves ones because of the 11 months of senselessness going on in Ukraine. My heart goes out to them, and all others suffering untold hardships in Somalia, Sudan and many other parts of the world (including my dear Nigeria). Jesus needs to come soon and wrap up this mess we call ‘life’ to usher in ‘eternal life’ ASAP….If you agree with me on this just type AMEN in the comment section 👇🏽

So, my last post here was in September, and I even came back with accusations, that you were the reason why I was not posting consistently on my blog (maybe I am right about that sha), but there is a bigger problem. I AM SICK! I have been self-diagnosed with inconsistency, and it’s taking a toll on me! It’s almost creeping into every area of my life, but let me focus on blogging for now. 😞

So my plan is to post on my blog once every week, but for three years now, I have struggled with it. I have tried several medications for this in the past guys; I have reminders permanently set on my phone to make a blog post (in-fact my wife yabbed me about it few days back), I have made a list of topics to blog about, I have definitely prayed about it too, but nothing seems to be working. 

It’s psychologically draining a-times guys, honestly. This is me being vulnerable and I am getting tired fam, but I refuse to throw in the towel. Here is me giving it another shot! I do not consider myself a failure because I only fail when I give up trying. So while I am motivating myself and saying to myself ‘I can do this’, I know there are some of you (let me not say many of you) who are on this ‘table’ with me too. Please let me know how you are dealing with your own sickness and what medications you are using, because by the grace of God, 2023 is our year of HEALING! 

So leave me a few words in the comments please, hopefully I am not in this alone 🙏🏽 

Meanwhile, I wish y’all a very rewarding and progressive year ahead. I hope and pray that it is your best year yet! Happy new year! 🎆

Max is going to Jail because of ‘Rigorous Sexual Activity’!

Hey there... 

So I was listening to the radio yesterday and came across this conversation that I found rather thought provoking and I thought to share with you... here it is!

This certain guy (let’s call him Maxwell) is known in his neighborhood for womanizing; he brings a different lady home almost every night for a sleepover. Unfortunately, on this day, he brings home Cynthia who unknown to him is asthmatic. In the middle of the night, Cynthia has an attack as a result of rigorous sexual activity (or for whatever reason) and sadly she doesn’t make it through the night, despite Maxwell doing everything within his power (except taking her to the hospital) to help the lady and save the situation. Poor boy!

Of course the police is involved and Maxwell is in detention awaiting trial. 

So before y’all begin to judge for trying to live the ‘good life’ 🤪, take a chill pill. The deed has been done already, so leave Maxwell to reflect a little behind bars while he awaits his trial.

But here is where you come in; drop a word of advice for a potential Cynthia and Maxwell out there. If you were to advice Cynthia and/or Maxwell before the ordeal,

WATIN YOU GO TALK? 🤔

Don’t fall hand abeg, use the comment section 🙏🏽🙏🏽

LONG ‘LIVE’ THE QUEEN!

What a week it’s been!

Liz Truss is sworn in and exactly two days after, Queen Elizabeth II bows out of not just the throne, but life in totality! 

February 6, 1952 to September 8, 2022; exactly 70 years, 7 months and 2 days after, the sun has finally set over Burkingham palace! 

70 years of vision, stability and consistency in the face of rapid changes and extreme global uncertainties. Late Queen Elizabeth has been described as “the only constant in the very rapidly changing times”. Hers has been a reign of admiration, and it is obvious that she is leaving behind STRUCTURES that would sustain the gains of 7+ decades.

African leaders are reminded once again that leadership is service and should deliver more than just ‘dividend of democracy’

Only time would tell what would come out of the reign of King Charles III, but in the words of my friend; Seraphine Aku-Batse; ‘London bridge has fallen’!

How did you receive the news of the Queens demise? Share in the comment section 

TWO YEARS AGO!

It’s been over two years I made any post on my blog... exactly 2 years and 4 months since my last post.

Please what is the drug for inconsistency again? I think I need a dosage. 

Well, I am giving it another try. 

Wish me luck and hey, read and make comments too! You sef follow for my problem 🤪

How’s the month going for you so far? 

Use the comment section and let me know what you would like me to write about more? Cheers!