I prayed I would not have to write about this, but here I am. Most times what you pray about, you are not able to bring about; sadly, this is life!
About a month or so ago, the social media was trending with the news and campaign; championed by some of 'Nigeria's voices': Toyin Aimakhu and Linda Ikeji, amongst others, for some millions of Naira to save the life of Mayowa Ahmed who, at the time, was battling with ovarian cancer. Nigerians were shocked when few days later, the same people came back to say that what they had given so much time and effort into and Nigerians had responded timely to, was a hoax and false. Emotions indeed were hurt; those of campaigners, donors and recipients alike.
After proper investigation, it was discovered that it wasn't a hoax afterall and Mayowa still needed help. Apologies can be more hurtful sometimes, especially when actions or reactions are not properly thought out.
Mayowa Ahmed was flown to South Africa on August 11; a delay that would have resulted from the complications surrounding the campaign and false alarm on the funds raised. Sadly, Mayowa passed in the early hours of today August 21st. It would be unfair to blame any part of Mayowa's sad incident on any of the individuals involved in the drama, but these individuals may, for a long time, keep memories of Mayowa and the role they played in her final weeks.
Linda Ikeji has since apologized for an act I call 'social media irresponsibility' and Toyin Aimakhu had also deleted all posts of the passionate appeal made for the dying Mayowa from her Instagram account, but I wish the same could be done to the records in the mind...
The lesson is simple! Social media can be likened to the tongue, and could even be more dangerous than it: USE WISELY!
#SleepwellMayowaAhmed